Further questions on relationship quality

The following sections relate to the quality of your relationship. Please answer questions on a scale of 0-4 where,

0 = Never true;
1 = Rarely true;
2 = Sometimes true;
3 = Usually true;
4 = Always true.

The following questions are about how ACCESSIBLE your partner is to you from your viewpoint

I can get my partner’s attention easily (0 = never true, 4 = always true)

My partner is emotionally accessible and it is easy to establish an emotional connection with them (0 = never true, 4 = always true)

My partner shows me that I come first (0 = never true, 4 = always true)

I do not feel lonely or shut out in this relationship (0 = never true, 4 = always true)

I can share my deepest feelings with my partner and they will listen (0 = never true, 4 = always true)

The following questions are about how ACCESSIBLE you are for your partner from your viewpoint

It is easy for my partner to get my attention (0 = never true, 4 = always true)

I am emotionally very open, and it is easy for my partner to build an emotional connection to me (0 = never true, 4 = always true)

I show my partner that they come first with me (0 = never true, 4 = always)

I make sure that my partner does not feel lonely or shut out in this relationship (0 = never true, 4 = always true)

My partner can share their deepest feelings with me and I will listen (0 = never true, 4 = always true)

The following questions are about how RESPONSIVE your partner is to you from your viewpoint

If I need connection and comfort, my partner will be there for me (0 = never true, 4 = always true)

My partner responds to signals that I need them to come close (0 = never true, 4 = always true)

I find I can lean on my partner when I am anxious or unsure (0 = never true, 4 = always true)

Even when we fight or disagree, I know that I am important to my partner and we will find a way to come together (0 = never true, 4 = always true)

If I need reassurance about how important I am to my partner, I can get it (0 = never true, 4 = always true)

The following questions are about how RESPONSIVE you are to your partner from your viewpoint

If my partner needs connection and comfort, I will be there (0 = never true, 4 = always true)

I respond to signals that my partner needs me to come close (0 = never true, 4 = always true)

My partner can lean on me when they are anxious or unsure (0 = never true, 4 = always true)

Even when we fight or disagree, I show my partner that they are important to me and we will find a way to come together (0 = never true, 4 = always true)

If my partner needs reassurance about how important they are to me, they can get it (0 = never true, 4 = always true)

The following questions are about how emotionally ENGAGED you are with your partner

I feel comfortable being close to and trusting my partner (0 = never true, 4 = always true)

I can confide in my partner about almost anything (0 = never true, 4 = always true)

I feel confident, even when we are apart, that we are connected to each other (0 = never true, 4 = always true)

I know that my partner cares about my joys, hurts and fears (0 = never true, 4 = always true)

I feel safe enough to take emotional risks and share difficult feelings with my partner (0 = never true, 4 = always true)

The following questions are about how emotionally ENGAGED your partner is with you

My partner feels comfortable being close to and trusting me (0 = never true, 4 = always true)

My partner can confide in me about almost anything (0 = never true, 4 = always true)

My partner feels confident, even when we are apart, that we are connected to each other (0 = never true, 4 = always true)

My partner knows that I care about their joys, hurts and fears (0 = never true, 4 = always true)

My partner feels safe enough to take emotional risks and share difficult feelings with me (0 = never true, 4 = always true)

INTAKE

Your name

Demographic informationen

Information zur Beziehung

Information about the deceased partner

Marriage history

Perceived quality of your current relationship